I accidentally found my husband lookind at porn, I feel terrible. Any advise? Why is he doing it?

I'm 20, he's 35, what's wrong? I'm young and willing to make love with him as much as he wants. I don't know what's wrong.I accidentally found my husband lookind at porn, I feel terrible. Any advise? Why is he doing it?
Most men who watch porn are insecure and don't want to face reality. They are living in a fantasy world where there are gorgeous and sexy young women. He needs to stop watching this trash and spend that time with you. I once watched this smut until my wife told her how it made her feel. It all went into a big trash bag and we have been much happier ever since. Get rid of the problem: porn is trash!I accidentally found my husband lookind at porn, I feel terrible. Any advise? Why is he doing it?
This is a subject that can only be decided by you and your husband it is based on how you feel about it. No one can tell you if it is right or wrong unless the porn is children. You need to ask him if he looks at it because something is missing in your relationship? It is very possible that it is nothing except he likes porn. If you like it maybe you could watch it together. If it bothers you tell him. But keep in mind that with your age difference he may feel that he needs to get a head start to keep up with or satisfy you. You wont know unless you talk to him. Don't put to much into it guys like porn...
There's nothing wrong. It's quite normal, and it's a different thing from his desire for you.





You have to overcome your embarrassment and talk about it. Not to judge it but just to make sure you/he don't keep secret parts of yourself locked away from other.





My boyfriend looks at it. I know about it, and I know it doesn't change anything about him. He knows I look at it some times. We were embarrased to talk about it at first but that soon faded, and to be honest it was all a great relief.





We have a pact that we keep nothing hidden from each other. Even - especially - our secret turn ons. The more sheepish we are about airing this stuff with each other, the more important it is that we talk. We don't judge. We don't mock or laugh. It seems to work for us and we're still very close and very sexually relaxed with each other after many years - we really understand and accept each other.
Lots of men and women enjoy porn - even if they have access to sex whenever they wish and/or great sex lives. This should not be an issue, don't turn it into one. You could try looking at films or pictures with him, you may find it exciting. If not then accept that for the majority of people this is just a harmless hobby, and try not to make him feel bad about being 'caught'.
don't know what type you caught him looking at magazine? web? web should be careful a lot of set ups and stings out there but mags and videos watch with him and enjoy you might learn something new. Yes I am a female and if I caught mine looking oh wait have in several relationships in the past so learned to watch with them no big deal it is in the privacy of own home and no children around or involved then should be safe
well, my husband doesn't look at porn - he is working and when he comes home he is busy rolling in bed with me. but cos i do not work i have too much time on my hands so i look at porn. i really, truly and sincerely do not understand what is wrong with that. so a person watches other people fornicating or doing other stuff to each other. so what? he is not killing anybody, is he?
hahaha... another who takes porn personally... most people enjoy porn for many reasons... and you make it ALL ABOUT YOU!!!





it isn't about the sex between you too... it is about some selfish time...





sex takes time, and preparation and you worry about pleasuring the other person...





porn is all about you and nothing else... porn doesn't care about personal hygiene or how fast you finish...





it is all about the escapism and the action... nothing more...





try getting into it too...
personally, i don't see anything wrong. at least hes not going around the corner to satisfy himself. let him get it on with himself it's really a weird desire that i don't get. my husband is the same way at least he's faithful. don't sweat the small stuff you'll learn as you get older.
Hey... Imagine a situation that you are not hungry and also you have lot of food (that you like the most) in your hand. You are passing through a sweet shop. Wont you give a look into the shop? This is exactly the same. Temptation or say, curiosity - just to know what is in?
he is just bored of you, if you don't fix the issues he will change you for porn. try to dress sexy.
there is nothing wrong when he watches porn. May be he wants to try the same poses he found in the porn film or may be he needs to watch a porn film to get horny !!!!!
How did he react when you saw him looking at porn? Why should you feel bad? He is your husband and you guys should please each other.How does it work him being 15 yrs older than you?
Most people watch porn even if they are married. This isnt a problem
it is normal to watch porn, it is nothing related to you if he watches porn
Trust me...it is ok! If you make it a big deal then it will become a big deal...take a peak you may like it.
instead of bit***** about it try looking at some you're self. you might like it.