Wednesday, November 23, 2011

What is the difference between being judgmental and giving advise?

Advice is given when asked in a manner that you feel will be helpful, and with the only intent to be kind.





Being judgemental is pronouncing your views on someone without regard to their feelings, or acknowledgement that there may be other views.What is the difference between being judgmental and giving advise?
When I tell you something its giving advice. When you tell me its being judgmental!What is the difference between being judgmental and giving advise?
The reason you are approaching them.
When you use personal accusations without understanding a persons situation, it is being judgmental.





Many people blanket judge people based apon sins they are committing. This wrong, because according to the bible every man is a sinner, and it makes the judge a hypocrite.





Giving advise is helping people through a problem, with understanding, not accusing them of sin.
Advice is requested.
You give advise IF someone asks for it.





You are being judgemental if you attack someone verbally for something.





Calling a Christian a hypocrite is being judgemental.


Telling an atheist that he/she is going to hell is judgemental.
Who's doing the judging and who's giving the advise.





If I tell an atheist he is lost and I suggest he read the Bible...I am being judgmental..from his point of view.





If an atheist tells me I am stupid for believing in God and suggest I read the theory of evolution....he is being judge mental..to me...in my point of view.
...its the difference between showing someone what it says in the bible and expecting them to do what's in the bible





The difference between showing and expecting...
being judgemental is seen as more blunt. there is a way to give your opinion without putting a person down this is usually seen as advice. advice is more of positive feedback and judgement is mostly negative. for instance is someone asked do you think that ashley sleeping around is wrong. judgement would give and answer yes or no and advice would be about what Ashley could do to live a safe or unsafe lifestyle. bad example i know sorry I don't know how to explain it lol.
giving advice occurs when somebody asks a question and you answer it.
Being judgmental is to judge other people.


Offering advice is just that offering. And you do not offer advice unless it is asked for.





Other wise it is telling people what to do. Which would be called being bossy
One is criticizing and the other is being helpful.
Well, let me give you an example - a 15 year old girl shows up here in Y!A looking for advice about her pregnancy, and she is considering giving the child up for adoption.





Someone judgemental will be calling her a **** for getting pregnant in the first place and tell her to give up her baby so that it won't have to live with a whore.





Someone giving advice will point her in the direction of the various resources and give her their opinion on what she should do.
There's a fine line between being judgmental and giving advise. Usually people should give advice if someone asks for it.
Judgmental is when you give 'advice' that isn't asked for.
Giving advice: Offering suggestions based on your experience.





Being judgmental: Labeling others because they don't take your advice.
when someone is being judgmental its very rude.


when someone is giving advise your trying to help you.
being judgmental is to judge someone based on your opinion


giving advise is offering someone your opinion
Being judgmental means the giver of the advice demands that the recipient of the advice takes it and if he doesn't the giver judges the refusal as final proof the recipient is reprobate; whereas one who gives advice simply prays the receiver will take it and if he doesn't the giver hopes that one day he or she might.
The recipients perception.
Advise - ';This is what I would do if I were in your situation.';





Judgmental - ';This is what you need to do in this situation.';
Being judgemental is critical. Giving advice is helpful and directive.
In advice, if folks ask me for it, I may give it... but it still being simply advice- they are free to take it or leave it as they see fit. As for so-called advice being judgmental... perhaps we should consider our trust in these individuals.

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