I need advise on how to deal with discrimination and fun making?

they are accusing me as a liar and calling me name in school and at their blogs. I hope i can be strong and not to be affected by them, but i just cant control my emotion and not to let it overtake me. i admit that i am oversensitive but i cant help it. what should i do. what can i do to make myself emotionally strong?I need advise on how to deal with discrimination and fun making?
If what ';they'; are saying is untrue, and You know the source, you can sue, or threaten to sue them for Slander, Libel, and Defamation of Character. When it comes to Money and getting Sued, that Always Shuts People Up... Real Fast!I need advise on how to deal with discrimination and fun making?
Just keep battling it out and reminding yourself that you do not deserve this treatment. Try to avoid them at all costs, maybe tell the teacher. I'm sure they'll soon get tired of it.


It's ok about being oversensitive, everyone gets hurt by that kind of thing, you are not in the wrong.
You need first to have confidence in yourself and what you think and do is based and motivated by the ';right'; reasons. Secondly you need to surround yourself with ppl that are ';positive'; even if that is only one or two ppl. Some ppl are worried about having a lot of friends rather than the quality of their friends. Sometimes your best friend can be your worse enemy, when you analyze it, it may be that you are their best friend, but they are not your best friend, and can be sabotaging a lot of your self-esteme, self-worth, etc. Lastly, don't be worried about justifying your feelings to ppl who essentially have nothing to do with your well-being (feeding you, sheltering you, etc.)
Awe...people are so imature. I feel for you..honestly. Don't get angry, let them play there little games. It always blows over. But you will always be the superior one, the adult one, for not playing there litttle games with them. Tell them to grow up if you must, you don't seem to need to grow up if you are seeking a rational means to end this problem...well good luck. Warm regards...
Decode this lyrics '; Say you say me';


Ask why self discriminate with self prides.


Without answering a piece of question with those ';Three little words'; on ';Who are you'; left behind by our creator for each and every living human kind to come up with an answer for the good of mankind in the creation of peace on earth goodwill to men.


Luke 21.30
I don't know if you realize this, but there are now


anti-bullying laws in public schools, including


internet harassment. Being accused of lying when


you are innocent is a hard one. The only way to deal


with this is to track down the original source and


Nancy Drew the person responsible, go to a school counsellor or principal and let them know what's happening.


The parents of the accusing people should also be


notified regarding their children's malicious behavior.


This is serious stuff and can have a life long influence


on your self esteem. Fight back here....it's important


and will give you confidence in the future if and when


this kind of thing comes up again. Be very clear


about what's really happened here and everyone's


role in it before starting in and best of luck...this is


hard enough to handle as an adult..be sure to have


your parents' support, along with other adults and


your close friends. Remember, school is just a


tiny part of your whole life...but some of the issues


that remain unresolved can last a lifetime. You


might want to check out the archives of The Dr. Phil


Show...they had a whole hour on this and it was


very informative!!
Pain is weakness leaving the body.





The best way to gain emotional strength is to suffer emotional trauma. This FORCES you to deal with the situation and you develop coping mechanisms.





Coping mechanisms can also be taught, learned and practiced.





To deal with your specific situation, you need to get to the root of the problem and do your best to unravel the rumors with reason. If that doesn't work, just play their games back. If they call you a liar, call them a liar for calling you a liar because you're not one. You can always play the repeat game where you just say everything they say until they get annoyed with you. Pranks are a good way of letting someone know that you're to be treated as an equal and crossing the line with you means retaliation.





Dealing with prejudice or bullying is simply a matter of standing your ground so you're not labeled as an ';easy target.'; Don't let them know that they are getting to you. They will lose interest and move onto someone else that provides greater entertainment with less effort.





Talk to a trusted friend about it and ask how they deal with certain other people when they need to.





Life is about living and learning. As you grow, you'll get stronger and gain confidence. Hang in there. After high-school you'll be stronger and wiser for dealing with the people that you have so far. People are also naturally more mature after they've spent a little time on their own.
You buck-up and just deal with it. Your entire life people will make fun of you and make you feel poorly and life wont be fair. If you don't learn how to deal with it, you'll crumble.
First of all, you need to create a new habit of putting things out of your mind as soon as you hear of them. When you hear it, remind yourself it isn't true, then think of something else. Sometimes the thought will creep back in your mind, but keep practicing.





Second, you know the truth of yourself. Keep telling yourself this truth and you can use this as the foundation to discount things people say. Good luck.
Find out how much fun you can have laughing at them. Learn some wisecracks and get with the program. Once you can hold your own they'll have to show you some respect- especially if you can make them laugh at themselves.
Alot of people would say ';just ignore it and it'll go away'; but i learned the hard way that, that advice doesn't work. Try standing out a bit. Crack a joke or bit a little smart-assish. Study the people that are making fun of you, find their flaws. Im not saying go around and point out every mistake and bully them back , cause you'll get in alot of trouble that way, Im just saying if you notice their flaws and comment on them infront of an audience then you make it fair game. But make sure it's a flaw that everyone notices and is a bit retarded, not something like they lip their words when they read but something like they walk with a limp to make people think he's a pimp...I was in the same situation and learned how to fight just incase..it wouldnt be a bad idea for you too.
if your not really guilty dont react on those kinds of stupid things.. as long as you react and react with that they will not stop doing it to you..


they fid it as fun to them..





show them your good enough to responce with those stupid acts.





let them feel that they are worse than a kids.
Gah, I'm going through the same thing at the moment. My friend gave me some tips... they actually kind of help.





1) Who cares what other people say.. You know the truth and that's all that matters.


2) Good posture - sit up straight. It makes you feel good.. Dunno why, but it does.


3) Smile - Even when you don't feel like it, smile.


4) Don't show bad emotions to those who are bothing you. They'll get bored that it's not bothering you and they'll stop.





Hope that helps.
start working out and beat the sht out of them